What is the true meaning of LOVE? Is it felt by a sudden beat in your heart? Or it is like a wind that pulls you two together in that circle? Many people had experienced LOVING A PERSON. Some were successful in their love life; they had reached the infinite line of loving, however some didn’t make it to that point; they broke up for some reason and end up crying all night, reminiscing the past.

I heard someone’s pain about love. She tried almost everything just to make their relationship strong; YES they were having a long relationship but inside are full of wrong understanding. In a relationship there are set of rules to be followed in creating a lasting love.

Top one on the list is TRUST. You can’t deal with your love one if you don’t trust him/her in everything he/she does. That distance is not an excuse for you to act cold to him/her.

Coming up is HONESTY. Others find it hard to do, especially for those persons who used to love two persons at a time or as we call it “two timer” being honest is a very important key for you to have a good relationship. Come to think of it,why would you love to lie if you don’t love this person at all? Are you just playing around?


Capital R E S P E C T. some are disobeying or forgetting this. A guy should respect a girl; for an example. “NEVER MAKE THE GIRL CRY INSTEAD MAKE HER HAVE A WONDERFUL SMILE”. But it is vice versa it isn’t just the guy who does the respecting but also the girl. The girl should pay more attention in making the guy happy and contented.


***UNDERSTAND. You must learn to understand each other’s situation, especially if you have an argument. One must put down his/her pride so that the problem would be fixed. Making a problem last for how many days is bad, for it can cause damage in your relationship; it can create a crack between you two.


STAYING SWEET ALL THE TIME. Keeping the day go fresh, making his/her life happy is really amazing. Some gave me this line, “at first he stays sweet, but as time goes by the sweetness starts to go away” in my opinion, half is true. There are some guys who used to do that. However, can you imagine a life without a problem? You will not think of anything else. Thoughtfulness falls here also, giving something which can make him/her happy and keeping in touch all the time is the right requirement.

LEARN TO FORGIVE. On the dark side, you can’t control problems that will strike you; you can’t also control your temper when it happens. But forgiving is really important, all of us do commit mistakes after all; God does forgive us no matter how huge is our sin.

LAST BUT REALLY REALLY REALLY IMPORTANT “DON’T CHANGE,IN THE DAY SHE HAD MET YOU UNTIL THE DAY THAT SHE WILL WEAR THAT WHITE DRESS. YOU WILL BE THE SAME GUY SHE MET BEFORE.”

This is my own version. And it ends there. To continue about the girl I was talking about, she thinks that she is always right and her boyfriend is always wrong, that’s why they are having problems all the time. But it is never too late to CHANGE and be back to normal just like before.

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